Teen Advice
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By Thessaly LaForce
Intro: Now this perspective from Youth Radio's Thessaly La Force
who has some advice for adults on how to cope with current events.
Since
September 11th, adults are starting to realize what it's like to
be a teenager. Sounds strange, but think about it. Every time something
tragic happens at schools, like a gang fight, or Columbine, adults
take a tough stance. Either confiscating our things or making us
go through stringent security.
Anthrax outbreaks and airport security lockdowns are definitely scary. But
imagine having lockdowns like this everyday of your high school life. This isn't
any different for us, except now we see it on the news, not just on campus.
We're used to going through metal detectors, or getting our favorite pocket
knives confiscated.
Adults always say "Trust me on this." But now trust us. In this case,
the kids are in better shape to explain things to their parents. So I have some
advice on how to get through the fear.
First of all, separate yourself a little from current events. Sure we read
the newspaper, but there's also that European History assignment. Sure we watch
the news, but there's also that episode of Friends. We are aware, we know current
events, but after a certain point we have a red light that says: STOP. YOU HAVE
TO GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
Second, use this excuse to treat yourself. Find a passion. Become a foreign
film expert, and wear a trendy black beret. Learn to play the violin.
Finally, secretly believe you're immortal. That's what we do. Sometimes denial
is a beautiful thing.
Honestly, as teenagers, we don't really know what we're doing with our lives,
and we take it for granted that tomorrow will be there for us. You have to believe
that too, no matter how old you are. And that's the best advice I can give you.
With a perspective, I'm Thessaly LaForce.
Back Announce: Thessaly La Force's perspective comes to us from Youth Radio,
an award-winning media training program in Berkeley.
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