December 04, 2008

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Mother's Day

Listen to this Commentary!

Tahira Simon

It's hard to believe a year ago I spent my first mother's day in a homeless shelter.

I'm Tahira Simon with a commentary from Youth Radio.

I was nineteen years old, my son Nassir was barely 10 months, and I was expecting another baby. Pregnant and alone, I felt ashamed for my son and the child I was carrying. I couldn't take care of them. I didn't feel like much of a mom.

At the shelter, my son caught colds and got infections. I felt helpless. I tried my best to care for him, buying him organic food so he could eat better than the other women and children at the shelter. I put so much effort into trying to make my son love me.

A year later, Nassir and his new brother have a two parent family and home is real. My sons have their own room. I finally feel like a mom.

They always say a child changes dramatically in the first years of life. But sometimes I think I'm the one who has had the biggest transformation. In my sons' eyes, I've always been their mom. It just took me a while to see that in myself.

For Youth Radio, I'm Tahira Simon.


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